| Location | Rochdale |
| Age | 45 years |
| Cause of Death | Not Listed? |
| Date of Birth | 30/12/1959 |
| Date of Death | 16/12/2005 |
| Visitors | 421 since 06/07/2009 |
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Carl Holmes died aged 45, just 14 days before his birthday, alone, left to struggle in a nursing home, Why? ..... because those who loved him most were refused permission to be with him, Carl suffered severe brain damage after an R.T.A,which left him in a coma,but with love,devotion and support he came out of his silent world and began to make progress, physio and speech therapy soon saw him slowly recovering, but it was the love and encouragement that saw him improve the most, at times it was difficult for him to understand why his legs didnt work and why he could'nt do all the things he could do before the accident. after 3 years things took a devastating turn for carl, after proposing marriage, and talk of him being placed in a purpose built bungalow, to continue his rehabilitation and recovery everything just stopped..... no longer able to receive the support he had been given, he stopped trying, the light that had been shining in his eyes died,placed in a nursing home, four years later Carl eventually gave up, he too died. but the love, the devotion the memories stay alive, in my heart. i loved carl i was devoted to him and i lost my soul mate, my best friend, my future happiness the day i was forbidden to ever see him again. i will see him again, we will be together again one day.... I Love you with every beat of my heart carl, no one can hurt you now. safe in heavens garden, locked inside my heart ... eternally x
Merry Christmas Carl x
hey there you, hope your making the angels laugh,i hope you are with simba, love him like i knew you did before, tell him his mummy misses him so very much xx Its that time of year i find the hardest to deal with, its your birthday next week too, life just goes on, the days come and go,the nights are getting shorter, time flies by but still the pain and heartache remains with every new day. xx til we meet again xx
xR.I.Px my love for you keeps shining x
MERRY CHRISTMAS DADDY
Christmas again and so too nearly your birthday, these years roll by far too quickly for my liking! Has simbad made his way to you yet? are you looking after him for us until we get there? i hope you are, i hope he is bringing you as much peace and love as you are him. love you still xx
Memories
Hiya sweetheart, hope your having a good rest where you are, I also hope hope Simba has found you and your both together. I miss you so much its almost christmas again which means its also almost your birthday. the years roll away so quickly but i have so many good memories of you, of us. melitta is married now, her husband is awesome you would like him. i know no matter what as long as i have my memories i can feel you near me though its not the same its all iv got to get me through til we meet again x I Love You Carl x I always will x
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY
you would be 51 today carl and we would be blowing out the candles on a caterpillar birthday cake together (because you know i have always loved them!) we would be dancing around the living room to cheesy 80s music and generally doing our best to embaress mum hehe
instead however, you are at peace, resting after this turbulant life you led and we are left here to light a candle, have a quite moment and just think of you and only you as we wish you happy birthday! i will love you always for who you were to me xxx chucky egg
My Angel My Carl x
no card to read, no presents to give just the memories we shared and the love that lives, thinking, loving and remembering thats all i have here with me, but i carry your love with me in my heart, that candle will never burn out. miss you so very much rest in peace love you forever carl xx
Merry Christmas Daddy
i miss you so much carl, christmas is the hardest time because east 17 stay another day is playing everywhere and all i can remember is how often that was on the radio while we sat vigil by your bed, beeps and pumps coming from all around. you were always so lively at christmas, the kind of stepdad that has the immaturity to make me love christmas but the maturity to give me the father figure i always craved. thankyou so much for being my dad for those few short years. they were magical and i will take them with me through life forever xxx love your lil chucky egg x
Eternally Yours xx
i look to heaven when i need you near, i call your name and know your here. if i could have just one wish it would be to hold you again and kiss you. forever and always you will be mine..... until the end of time xx xx
i know we will be together again one day, then nothing or no one will take you away xx xx xx I Love you with every beat of my heart, I Miss you every moment of time. xx together again xx
I Miss you x
I miss you so much my darling sweetheart, you were,are and will always be my sexpot. no one can see what i feel, no one knows whats in my heart, I Love you to bits Carl, i wish you were still here with me. i will be with you again my darling, together again x x x
though many men came and left mine and my mums lives, only one stepped up to the father role and stood out and that man was carl holmes, he was and always will be the father i never had, i was 9 when he started dating my mum and i will admit at first i believed it was a bad idea but meeting him and getting to know him taught me one VERY valuable lesson that i take with me through life and that is simply this
ANGELS COME IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES, ours was in need of some guidance back to where he could be happy and i believe his life changed for the better when we met as our lives did too. i was months away from being adopted by carl and i would have been the proudest daughter there ever was. forever in my heart, in my mind, part of my soul
i love you carl, miss you terribly
rest in peace
your little chucky egg x
angel in heaven
hiya babes well its took me a little while but here i am at last. well its been a few years now and i love you just as much, i may be with someone else but my love for you was exclusively yours.
loved you then
love you still
always have
always will xxx
i know you are now at peace and in a safe place, your memory and your love live with me every day il will never forget you baby til we meet again.... together again xxxx
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